How Do Smart Men
Build Happy Lasting Relationships?

Well, the two main differences between men who build happy lasting relationships and those who don’t are their:

1) commitment level and
2) emotional intelligence

It's true. If you are fully committed and have a developed emotional intelligence, you can easily build a happy and lasting relationship.

Build Happy Lasting Relationships

Why are commitment and emotional intelligence more important for men than for women when it comes to being able to build happy lasting relationships? Because statistics show that guys avoid relationship commitment more than women and have less developed emotional intelligence (EI) skills.


Commitment and Happy Lasting Relationships

Some guys want the benefits of a committed relationship but often avoid committing formally. Living together, spending time and money together, exclusive sex, meeting each other’s friends and family, making plans for the future are committed actions. They don’t help you build happy lasting relationships unless you commit mentally and emotionally to your relationship as well.

When you fully commit, formally you say vows and exchange rings in front of others. More importantly and on a deeper level, you align your personal goals with the goals of your couple. You also acknowledge that challenges in your relationship are not a valid reason to break your commitment; it simply means there is work to be done.

If you are ready to quickly break your commitment when challenges arise, it means you are committed to your own comfort zone, rather than to your relationship.

Relationship commitment is more effective than workshops, self-help books, counseling, therapy, and even relationship coaching in overcoming your relationship bumps and helping you build happy lasting relationships.


Commitment and Happy Lasting Relationships

Some guys want the benefits of a committed relationship but often avoid committing formally. Living together, spending time and money together, exclusive sex, meeting each other’s friends and family, making plans for the future are committed actions. They don’t help you build happy lasting relationships unless you commit mentally and emotionally to your relationship as well.

When you fully commit, formally you say vows and exchange rings in front of others. More importantly and on a deeper level, you align your personal goals with the goals of your couple. You also acknowledge that challenges in your relationship are not a valid reason to break your commitment; it simply means there is work to be done.

If you are ready to quickly break your commitment when challenges arise, it means you are committed to your own comfort zone, rather than to your relationship.

Relationship commitment is more effective than workshops, self-help books, counseling, therapy, and even relationship coaching in overcoming your relationship bumps and helping you build happy lasting relationships.


Emotional Intelligence and Happy Lasting Relationships

It’s a fact: guys are not naturally skilled (as most women are) in emotional intelligence.

If you are like most men, you are not as familiar with your emotional world as you are with your physical and mental ones. But emotional intelligence can be developed.

In fact, it is absolutely necessary if you are to build happy lasting relationships.

Without emotional competence you can be okay as a single guy, but NOT in a couple. You can have a successful career, make a lot of money, date a lot of women and still feel unfulfilled. Your relationships will not last very long.

In today’s world, most women will not stay with you for your abilities as a provider only; especially if they are self-reliant and independent financially.
Women's emotional intelligence is naturally high, they are simply wired this way. They begin practicing these skills in early childhood.

Obviously, they will want a partner equally skilled emotionally. They expect you to ‘catch up’, learn and know how to use emotional intelligence skills in your couple. But it might not be easy, since this is something you have probably never been taught about.

If you are like the majority of men, emotional awareness, empathy, building trust, advanced communication and listening skills, effective conflict resolution, and personal accountability are things you got little (if any) training in.

But if you want to build happy lasting relationships and increased intimacy with your partner, you must learn emotional intelligence skills.

Studies show emotional intelligence impacts your personal and professional success 7 times more than IQ, the traditional cognitive intelligence.

The best part of raising your emotional intelligence and becoming ‘heart-smart’ is that you will become much more successful quite fast in all areas of your life. Your social interactions, leadership and charisma will improve dramatically.

Daniel Goleman, the author of “Emotional Intelligence”, the EI reference book writes: "Analyses done by dozens of experts in 500 corporations, government agencies, and nonprofit organizations worldwide conclude that emotional intelligence is the barometer of excellence in virtually any job."

Yes, there are useful tips to seduce your wife and maintain happy love relationships. But if you are not fully committed and emotionally intelligent, these tips will seem phony and you will not be able to build happy lasting relationships no matter how successful you are in your career.


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