Believe it or not, your relationship compatibility determines whether your relationship will be a lifetime of love and happiness or a complete disaster.
Did you know that incompatibility between intimate partners contributes to 78% of break-ups and is at the core of most common relationship problems? It's true!
Learn here about relationship compatibility and how to know who you’re compatible with.
First, you should know that romantic and marriage compatibility make life together much simpler.
Sure, opposites attract, but a stable relationship is based on similarity.
Second, get this. Sexual compatibility and chemistry in relationships are vital, but they are never enough.
Love compatibility means you're able to connect with your partner on several other levels: mental, emotional, and spiritual - after all, she’s the woman you plan to spend the rest of your life with.
...makes it easy to get along. A lack of mental compatibility means that if the two of you don’t have similar personal values and beliefs about life, sooner or later you will encounter major issues. You will end up having to either deal with conflicts, bitter arguments and even fights, or compromise.
Yes, building a blissful relationship means learning to compromise without creating frustration and resentment; but you can compromise more easily when you share common values and interests with your partner.
...is very important too. You see, if you are like most men, you have certain emotional needs, like the need for acknowledgment, admiration, fun, companionship, and so on. If your sweetheart can’t fulfill these needs, you will be permanently frustrated and unhappy.
Not only that, you’re much more likely to try fulfilling these needs somewhere else, and as you know, this might mean big trouble.
...means that if you can’t connect with your partner on a spiritual level, your relationship will wither sooner or later. The real secret to a deep and fulfilling connection with the woman you love is to share a spiritual growth path and a meaningful spiritual practice with her!
So how do you know if you have a good relationship compatibility with the woman you love?
You must know what matters most to you in life. Of course, everyone has specific preferences, needs, and requirements. And while you and your partner can certainly negotiate your preferences and learn to fulfill each other’s needs, requirements tend to be non-negotiable.
How do you know when something is a requirement? It’s simple, really. If a certain requirement is missing, the relationship will not work for you. If you remember only one thing about requirements, remember this: they are not traits of your partner, but rather events that must happen in your own life.
For example, if having children is a requirement for you, you won’t be able to have a good relationship with a woman who is not willing to have or raise kids. In the same way, if your partner requires a settled life where routine and predictability are essential, but one of your requirements is to explore the Amazon jungle or volunteer in Africa, your relationship will be short-lived.
Impossible to ignore, a lack of relationship compatibility is unsolvable. Simple changes in your or your partner’s behavior are not enough. Incompatible requirements result - inevitably - in a failed relationship.
So, what are your needs and requirements? Is your partner able to fulfill them? Conversely, are you able to fulfill your partner’s needs and requirements? How do you find out if you and your partner are truly compatible?
Or, how do you find a compatible partner?
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